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Coming Out as a Drama Llama
This is one of my all-time favorite clips from the Office. Probably because I am Andy. I’m coming out folks. And this time, as a Drama Llama. I’ve never wanted to come out as a Drama Llama, probably...
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3 Years of Openness
J and I have been together over 7 1/2 years and now open/poly for 3 years today! I love that April Fools is our open anniversary. :D I feel like we nurture two overlapping relationships. One is the...
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More Than Two & Independence
Happy Independence Day! How are you celebrating your freedom today? Do you feel free? How can you if you don’t? I finally finished Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert’s Book More Than Two. Whew. That was a...
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Sexual Agreements
A good friend sent me a book about a month ago, and I’m almost done with it: Sexual Agreements by Amara Charles. (I haven’t found it online, which is why there isn’t a link to it). However, Amara’s...
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Nonmonogamy research, gender, self care, and HIV
Links to share: This is a pretty fascinating summary of research done on the perception of different types of nonmonogamy; spoiler alert, poly folks were perceived to be more moral while swingers were...
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Twitterpated
I asked J one day last week: “Have you ever experienced new relationship energy with two people at the same time?” I was trying to wrack my brain for past experiences that fit this idea. “I don’t think...
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More On Sexual Agreements
Okie dokie, more discussion on Amara Charles’ Sexual Agreements. Like I do, I have pulled out my favorite passages to share with you all, and bolded sections that I found particularly powerful. I enjoy...
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Women in Crossfit
Last week I was at the gym and was completely captivated watching the women crossfit games on the TV. It was like something shifted deeply inside my gut watching buff, strong, muscle-y women lift...
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Penis Facts, OKC, Defining Relationships
Links, links, links! Last week was vagina facts, this week it’s time for: Penis facts! OKCupid has been running experiments on all of us sorry online daters I’m in love with this website for a...
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Radfems, Harassment, Survival Sex
Links to share this week; most are pretty long, but totally worth it: What Is a Woman? The dispute between radical feminism and transgenderism. Response: Op-ed: An Open Letter to The New Yorker Next...
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